Friday, 28 November 2014

Pashatuks Great Midnight Adventure and the Uncontrollable Adrenalin Rush

Picking up a team member from the airport and bringing him back to base is a routine affair for most people. Most includes Pashatuks- well most of the times. Its an odd event here and there which keeps the adrenalin rush flowing in full form. And these odd events happen to be a part and parcel of Pashatuks daily lives.
This story starts with hitting on the road for the airport and after negotiating through the routine traffic snarls and road blocks that happen due to truckers and VIP movement alike, we managed to pick up our team member and hit off for base camp HOME.
The journey three quarters covered with us appreciating a late night Delhi- all lit up- wide roads,relatively empty roads,monuments looking forlorn but beautiful  and we suddenly see all lights blinking in the dashboard,like a Sci-Fi Hollywood movie and the 1980 Kilo SUV sputters to a halt.
Someone up there in the skies above does love Pashatuks.
For here we are in Delhi,not exactly the safest city for a woman and the car breaks down close to midnight at not a remote dark place(as they show in movies)but at a very very busy and well lit up crossing with a huge State Transport Bus depot within eyesight.Lady luck smiles at us,even when throwing challenges. The male members get out of the car and the bonnet is opened.They are sure that its a matter of minutes before we are up and moving.

Tuks sniggers inwardly,but keeps her mouth tightly shut and she rolls back the seat and settles in to catch up with friends on social media and telephones. A couple of cigarettes later and checking out of the locality for some tea(there was no tea vendor but a lone ice cream vendor who looked at us hopefully- the 8 degree celcius,windy, post midnight weather didnt induce any of us to help the poor hopeful though), the men decide to call in for help. So an emergency call goes out to 1800-209-7006- the 24*7 helpline number for Mahindra vehicles. The MNCs need to take a lesson or two from this indigenous  company on customer care- within half an hour we were located, picked up and dropped to the  service station closest to home.
The interesting part of the story comes when the recovery van comes in. Accompanied by the trained engineers the open van has a hydraulic ramp which opens up and the vehicle is pulled up through winch cables. Pashatuks has tried to record it,but the lighting was poor and maybe you dear readers have to strain your eyes to fathom what really happened.

After the bully was pulled up without a whimper like a chastised schoolboy, on the van we clambered into the car and took an early morning ride on top of the world, gleefully staring at the cars rushing by below.Our filmy moments. A rather expensive ride this, at INR 1800 for around 6 odd kms,but the experience and thrill of the moment more than made up for the lighter wallet. At the workshop, the same procedure was repeated to bring the car down and we looked around for transport for the last 1.5 kilometer home. The humble autorickshaw was the paid for knight in shining armour. We trooped in with our luggage and were dropped at our doorstep and this was the end to yet another journey.

Sunday, 23 November 2014

From Debyani Dasans notes-The year of disassociation- annual round up 2014

The journey through 2014 is coming to an end and the platform for 2015 is in sight and its time for a quick recap.
2014 has actually been a year where I have had the strength to battle all the ugliness around me and still have my head up and the smile intact. The year of disassociation perhaps?
Moving on has never been this easy before

The emotional armour firmly around my soul sends a strong signal that nothing is permanent and its stupid to hold onto anything- good, bad or ugly.The hurts have been there,but nothing caused emotional scars that I couldn't handle.
 I am now convinced that life is never going to let me sit on my butt and relax. Challenges are going to be thrown constantly at me and its going to take all that I have within me, to battle it out and emerge triumphant. For I love to win and win I shall. Maybe my battle is different, but my battle extracts more from me than what I would like to accept.
Mr.Tandon would be proud of me truly.
A big lesson to me came when my mail ids got hacked- and it was not nice to know that the hacker was someone who knew me and yet created the mischief.
Security on the web is definitely not as tight as one would like to believe.
First hand experience with a clinically mentally disturbed person makes me a more compassionate person and I realise how cheap and demeaning it is to laugh at someone who may not function the same way as I do. For everyone fights their own demons and don't deserve ridicule.
2014 has been a year of reunions- friends from the past, who I havent met in decades turned up in my life at least expected moments. With some I picked up the threads where I left off, with some  the distance only grew. But the connect remains.



This year has seen me starting a new venture with my  close friend- Pashatuks,
...and pashatuks is born
the community for people who travel and explore. I intend to put all of my passions together here,the love for travel,the love for writing and the love for networking and see what I can make out of the venture. I am ready to unleash the explorer within me.
Holidays have started taking new dimensions this year with Pashatuks being operational- Pashatuks is giving me more joy than I ever imagined. Now its time to strengthen the system and make it rock.
Leaving Wisdom Mart was a smooth process this time as I was not enjoying my work.
I have finally started wearing my spectacles for a better part of the day- the vision is clearer and so is the self.
But whats a story without some pathos- this year has seen Neuton slowing down and sick ever so often. I have been forced to accept that I dont have him for very long with me- a fact that is causing me gut wrenching pain.
But I know this too will pass and so as this year passes out I am ready and curious to know what new twists and turns I have to face in the new year. Ahh the journey has just begun is the feeling that I am getting- and waiting for the train to chug into 2015 and start off for the next destination...





Monday, 17 November 2014

Delhi Police - Aap ke liye, Aap ke Saath, Sahdev.(From Debyani Dasans facebook note)

My brush with the law is restricted to taking out my wallet and filling out challans ,once for over speeding and the other for jumping red light.Both times, the traffic constables  were polite and courteous, though very firm in punishing me for my violations. One even gave me INR 30 discount when he saw that I had no money left in the wallet after paying the challan.
But  the image that any law enforcing agency in our country has, in the minds of the common citizens, is nothing to write home about. Insensitive  and corrupt are the two words that come into the mind the moment the word police is uttered. In fact the slogan for Delhi police is the butt of many a joke in the middle class crowd. Roughly translated, it means "for you, with you always"-the biggest paradox.
Yet yesterday, something happened that made me revise my opinion that the Police are also humane with loads of sensitivity and a body who can handle sensitive cases, sensitively, and with huge dollops of compassion and humanity.
The mentally disturbed daughter of a friend of mine,in a moment of disturbance called in the police with all possible allegations against the parents,including fear for life and mental well being.
The calm and patient handling of the 6 odd Police from New Ashok Nagar Police station who had turned up not only calmed the violent girl,but also made her realize that these were people who were there to help her. And these were not the highly educated elite IPS,but the humble officials from a different strata of society, where ugliness and unpleasantness are commonly heard of.
They were equally polite to the parents, sympathetic(every one of them being parents themselves could empathize with the anguished parents)
The disturbed girl wanted to stay the night at the police station, but the laws of the land do not permit a lady to be detained in the police station post sundown, so the Police couldn't help there, causing her to get violent again - so they devised a way where the traumatized girl could be calmed- they opened their own sleeping quarters in the station,making her feel like a guest of the Delhi police,with the clause that a lady from  her house(in this case the girls mother) stayed with her. Through the night while the disturbed girl slept in peace, the friendly staff there counselled the mother, giving her tips on how to take take care of the daughter,offering solace and consolation to the parents on the cold winter night. I stood in the sidelines and watched in silence and this team took over a potentially violent situation with many shades of unpleasantness and ugliness and brought it to control.
I have no means of knowing whether what I witnessed yesterday is a one- off case or not but today I am forced to raise a salute to this team of yesterday as a common citizen of our democracy.
One more lesson in my journey through life- a single body cannot be painted with the same brush- each stroke is different. The situation demands the behavior of the Police force.

Saturday, 8 November 2014

PashaTuks stumbles upon- Kerala Cafe

PashaTuks has the habit of celebrating the authentic,No matter how off beat or humble the origins might be.
Delhi is dotted with small eateries catering to the palate of the homesick Malayalees or the discerning   traveling foodies looking for a taste of what they might have had on their trip to Gods own country.Most of them do a fairly good job of reproducing the native flavour.
What makes the newly opened Kerala Cafe stand out is the availability of the exotic items in Delhi- Roast Duck, Clams (kakka curry),and Kingfish (Nayimeen) are some of the items that dot the menu along with the standard Kerala meals with the staple fish curry, fish fry etc.
PashaTuks ordered a portion each of Roast Duck, Beef fry, Beef roast Clams,Kingfish, Fish curry, a full kerala meal and appams.
Team PashaTuks certified the taste of each item ordered as authentic as it can get. Though the items looked very fiery, it did not hurt the intestine at any point.
The kakkas or the clams were flavoured subtly the way one gets as one eats at any of the many eateries facing the waterfront throughout the state.
The affable young owner Jose from Trissur says he came to the Capital city to make his mark. And it doesnt seem that hes done too badly as we spotted family of one of the leading political families quietly enjoying his fare and leaving as unobtrusively as he came in. The service quality is exemplary with Jose himself taking the orders and executing them- he is still a little rough around the edges with Hindi but he manages to understand what the guest wants and delivers. A meal for two costs slightly less than INR 500


This 16 cover eatery is on the 1st floor of the main market of Mayur Vihar in East Delhi. Ask for Acharya Niketan market and its in the 1st lane right after you enter the market.You have to look up to spot the signage.Its clean and hygienic.It is advisable to park the vehicle at the nearby Local shopping complex in front of Jeevan Anmol Hospital and walk. The walk itself is a journey as one can get the freshest of fruits and vegetables right on both sides of the road at rather affordable prices. PashaTuks had absolutely authentic Kerala cuisine in the typical style and pace of the average Malayalee -zimbly relaxed!
Jose- the owner